The Operating Rules of Coercive Control

Coercive control does not rely on chaos. It relies on structure.

Most people are still calling this conflict. That is the first mistake. What you are looking at is not disagreement, breakdown, or a custody issue. It is control. Patterned. Intentional. Sustained.

I have seen this from both sides. Not as theory. Not as a case study alone. As a system that operates the same way whether you are inside the home, inside the…